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Saturday, November 12, 2011

Boys of Summer Book - Entry #90


July 29, 2004 - Bob
Minneapolis, MN

We arrived at the YOPC after the long drive. I was initially distracted as our plans for tomorrow’s Chicago Cubs game were very much in limbo after seemingly being squared away just yesterday.

We were warmly welcomed, receiving hugs from some folks we knew like Mike O’Leary, Mary Ann Sprinkle and Jack Hungelman. We were given the opportunity to tell our story to everyone. Afterward, I led everyone in singing a round of “Take me out to the ballgame”.

Just like everywhere else, the magic started happening as we started listening.

Graphic Artist Alan Rabinowitz was diagnosed with PD in June of 1999. 

BC:
Alan, you grew up as a--

AR:
I grew up in Brooklyn, New York. And I was taught as a little kid that the Dodgers were the best team and the Yankees were the enemy.

BC:
And when were you born?

AR:
1951 in Brooklyn. The same year that Mr. Thompson hit the home run over Branca, “The shot heard ‘round the world.”

BC:
And how did that call go?

AR:
"The Giants win the Pennant! The Giants win the Pennant! The Giants win the Pennant!" At any rate my first baseball game that I was supposed to go to I was about five years old. It got rained out. And the next year the Dodgers moved out of Brooklyn. Then I became a Mets fan. I could never root for the Yankees. I could never, ever -- they were the other guys. They were from the Bronx, we were from Brooklyn. Pterodactyls still fly through the skies of the Bronx. So I became a Mets fan. As bad as they were, they were still our team. We’d go to the Polo Grounds or out to Shea and they were bad but it was fun.

Then it was the summer of ‘69 which was...unbelievable. Or as we used to say back in the neighborhood, (with heavy Brooklyn accent) “Unbelievable!” And it was one of my three favorite baseball memories. The other one was the ‘91 Braves.

I moved to Atlanta in ‘79 and saw even more bad baseball for a number of years. ‘Til the ‘91 season when the Braves coalesced and became “The Braves”. It was great. Everyone was doing the Tomahawk Chop. My son was two years old, he was doing the Tomahawk Chop. I remember doing it when we lost in the ‘91 playoffs. Lonnie Smith got deked out by Chuck Knoblauch in game seven of the World Series. Zero to Zero, Terry Pendelton hits one deep to the corner I said, “Lonnie Smith’s gonna score!” He gets deked, winds up on third and we can’t bring the run in.

But, the next year, 1992, game seven of the NLCS, the Pirates are up two-zip going to the bottom of the ninth. The Braves come up. They get one run back. Then there’s two outs. The bases are loaded and up comes Francisco Cabrera, who was the third string catcher. And I’m standing in the living room saying, “Come on, Frankie! Come on, Frankie!” On a two and one count, he slaps one past the short stop and out to Barry Bonds in left. The tying run comes in. Then Sid Bream, the slowest man in baseball, who was on second base, comes tearing down the basepath like a runaway locomotive and sliiiiiides. And if his foot was a half-inch shorter he would have been out. The ball comes. Their catcher, LeValier, tries to tag him. Sid’s foot touches the corner of the base. Braves win. Or as Skip Carey said, “Braves Win! Braves Win! Braves Win!”

I’m sitting in my living room and I think everybody in my neighborhood heard me go, “ALL RIGHT!” I woke my kid up. “What’s wrong, Daddy? What’s wrong?” I said, “The Braves won!” He said, “Oh.” He’s a big baseball fan, but he was also about three years old at the time and too tired to deal with it.

BC:
Were there in repercussions from your wife?

AR:
She said, “Do you have to yell so loud? The neighbors are going to hear you.” And I said, “But the Braves won! Sid Bream -- my man!” Francisco Cabrera could have run for Congress in Georgia and won. He could have. It was incredible.

BC:
Tell me about your artwork and why you do it.

AR:
Well I call this digitography. What I do is I take existing imagery and I manipulate them in the computer using Photoshop Elements. And what got me started doing it was, my son’s Bar Mitzvah a couple of years ago, my wife is into genealogy and she wanted to do a family tree. And we had all these old family photographs and I said, let me mess around with these in Photoshop. It turned out great.

About the same time, the PD was getting worse and I fell into depression, I had insomnia. I couldn’t focus for work. I was a writer and I was missing deadlines. I was up and I swore I would not stay up all night watching television. I was up and I was trying to write. And I was on the computer anyway, so I said let me see what will happen if I start to mess around with some of these photos. And that’s what happened. I started playing with photos and I do this and that, add them together and get “that”.

 

Friday, November 11, 2011

Boys of Summer Book - Entry #89

100% proceeds go to the Michael J Fox Foundation. 

Interviewing my dad, driving from Detroit to Minneapolis
 for the Young Onset Parkinson's Network Conference

RC:
How was it listening to John talk?

DC:
I thought that he seemed a little more introspective. I wouldn’t say depressed. He seemed a little more negative. He seemed to be maybe it was because of the questions he was being asked. He seemed to be spending a little more time on the negative aspects of his life and I know that’s probably not hard to do considering what his life consists of, but...maybe he was just revisiting it and in the daylight it seemed more so. We didn’t spend an awful lot of time talking to him about him last time so that may be the reason it seemed that way to me. But your comment about his sweetness that’s still there. He’s a very nice person. He’s caught in a body that’s not very nice to him.

RC:
How do you feel about the idea of an act of God as a release point for Parkinson’s?

DC:
I think I know what it means -- it means you can’t find any other reason for it. But the implication is that somebody did something to me...somebody named “God” and I don’t think that’s the case. I know I’m being a bit argumentative and fine-pointing it, but that’s what it sounds like to me.

RC:
What is having Parkinson’s to you then?

DC:
It’s just bad luck. Chance. One of those genes tripped the wrong way. And it may or may not have been environmental. I doubt that it’s genetic, but we don’t know that. So I just mark it up to chance.

RC:
So then does it become more important, perhaps, do focus on what you’ll do with it than how you got it?

DC:
Yeah. How I got it is really more important to other people. People who may have it. People who may get it. I’d like for other people to avoid it if it’s possible. The answer to that may be somewhere down the road. Down this road, maybe.

RC:
How do you feel about the trip at this stage -- 19 games in?

DC:
I’m happy we’re headed west. I’ll be happy to be back with Paulette and I certainly will miss the experience. It’s something I’m sure I’m going to think about and reflect on for the rest of my life. It’s a pretty extraordinary thing we’re doing. And the thought of it still seems so.

RC:
How has time felt to you out here?

DC:
At times it goes by very slowly, like driving in the rain yesterday. In difficult situations where traffice is a problem or directions are a problem. But then there are times where it goes by in a blink of an eye Like during a game or a fun meal together, certainly when I’m sleeping. You know I think I’m sleeping as well as I’ve slept in a long time. And I’m guessing it’s because what we’re going through is tiresome.

RC:
You feel like you’re having full days every day?

DC:
Yeah. And that’s good.

RC:
Do you remember Jimmy Valvano’s description of a full day?

DC:
Laugh, cry and...challenge yourself?

RC:
Take time to think.

DC:
Take time to think. Well, I’m not sure I do all of those things every day -- in fact I’m sure I don’t. But they’re in there.  It’s not a bad idea. Not a bad pursuit.

RC:
When was the last time you were moved to tears?

DC:
It wasn’t too long ago. I think it was over when we were at Gary and MaryAnn Mortensens.

RC:
What was it that moved you to tears?

DC:
I’m not sure whether it was something he was doing or something she was saying. I think it was something that MaryAnn said. I can’t remember what it was. It was while we were out in the boat.

RC:
Did it catch you by surprise?

DC:
Apparently.

RC:
Crying is not something you do often.

DC:
Ummm...actually more often all the time. It’s pretty easy for me to cry at a movie or a poignant moment.

RC:
Is that a change for you?

DC:
I think so.

RC:
When did you notice that the tears were more natural for you?

DC:
It may have been through the different circumstances we’ve gone through with Christine. With addiction and certainly with AlAnon. And then reconciling ourselves -- the reconciliation. We were lost for a few years. Those were some very emotional circumstances that touched me.

RC:
Five parks in five days -- what do you think about what we’ve just done?

DC:
A blur -- that’s how I’d describe it.

RC:
What stands out?

DC:
It’s funny -- the one thing that stands out is that chance meeting with those girls (at the gas station) in Pennsylvania.

RC:
What stands out about that?

DC:
Well, I had gone to the bathroom, which was way in the back in a dark area, and when I came out you were talking to them and it was a lot of life and energy which seemed to contrast with -- what was it 3- 4 o’clock in the morning in the middle of nowhere. These young ladies were on the trip similar to ours. They were baseball fans. And they were very full of energy and interested in what we were doing.

RC:
So that was enjoyable?

DC:
Very enjoyable. They were nice people. The whole thing was extraordinary.

RC:
What do you think about Montreal?

DC:
(laughs) Montreal is, I’m sure a better place than I remember it. It has to be. (The rest of Canada) wouldn’t wait for them to secede they’d kick them out if it was what it appeared to be to me.

RC:
Can you spell “west” in French?

DC:
F-U-C-K. Sorry -- Q-U-E-S-T.

RC:
I believe it’s O-U-E-S-T.

DC:
Oh yeah. See there you go. I just love that place. No wonder I couldn’t find my way around, I was looking for the “Q”.